self love
cermeony
This experience kicked off my personal sexual healing journey in 2017, while I was in the midst of a marriage where obligatory sex was pretty much the only kind I was having.
The process instilled so much clarity and connection to myself, I got certified in the method the same year, and started guiding women through it (spoiler: it also gave me the courage to leave my misaligned marriage).
When COVID happened in 2020, I created an online, pre-recorded version of the experience with my webcam. I had no idea that over 2000 women would participate from 26+ countries. It’s a humble ceremony, stripped down in every sense of the word (I thought 20 people were going to do it, tops). I think that’s why it resonates with so many. It feels like you are right there with me, a friend holding your hand through a really brave thing… truly, deeply, witnessing yourself.
It is based on the rituals of Bodysex®, a self-pleasure, self-touch workshop created by my late teacher, Dr. Betty Dodson, in the 70’s (may she rest in peace, knowing her legacy lives on). I feel incredibly lucky to have trained directly underneath her during her last years.
The best part? You can do this from the comfort of your own home, it’s pre-recorded (nobody sees you), and it’s a fraction of the price.
Price is in USD, and comes with a 30-day money-back guarantee.
What’s inside
Inside, you will find three main practices. including the original 2-hour and 47-minute Bodysex® Ritual video. Explore below for sample videos from these modules, as well as details on what else is included in the experience.
Sound Healing Session (27:25)
A robe on, shame shedding ritual with a Shruti box (an instrument to unlock the voice). A perfect starting point if you are nervous about the workshop. Can be done alone or as an opening to the full ritual.
Guided Self Massage (22:45)
This session is done in the nude but it is not sexual. A good way to ground into your body and get comfortable being naked. It includes some gentle movements to warm up the body, a head and neck massage with the Magic Wand, and a full body massage using your hands.
The Original Ritual (2:47:19)
Just like an in-person Bodysex® workshop, we move through the 5 rituals, as created by Dr. Betty Dodson.
How Do You Feel About Your Body
How Do You Feel About Your Orgasm
Genital Show and Tell
Rock and Roll
Erotic Recess
testimonials
testimonials
FAQs
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Nope! The workshop is prerecorded. You will watch videos of Katrina. Your webcam is not on. Nobody will be watching you. Some people have chosen to watch the recording with other women and have made their own little circle, but most watch on their own.
For special live calls, you have the option to leave your camera on or off.
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No. You have lifetime access to the course. You can watch it whenever you please.
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No. There are several sections. You can go at your own pace.
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Yes. The workshop is viewed through the membership area of this website. You need internet access to stream the videos. They are not downloadable.
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If you complete the workshop and you don’t feel like it was valuable for you, you can email us and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked, as long as it is within 30 days of your purchase.
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No. While the magic wand is the iconic tool of Bodysex, any vibrator will do. Inside the course, you will find a guide to buy a vibrator and dildo (both of which are recommended) at various price points, as well as a discount code to some of my favourite pleasure shops.
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Lots of women who have never had an orgasm have taken this workshop. You are not alone. Inside the workshop, you will learn Dr. Betty Dodson’s signature “rock and roll” method of self-pleasuring, which has been studied in Europe on anorgasmic women with a 93% success rate. You can view the study here. New skills do take time and practice. You might not have an orgasm during the workshop, but you will learn everything you need to have one.
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Amazing! I would say the majority of the women who take this workshop already have orgasms. Achieving an orgasm is cool, but letting go of shame and finding deeper layers of authentic self-expression are really what we are after here. This workshop holds space for you to have a conscious, meaningful sexual connection with yourself. Many describe the experience as transformative. Check out the testimonial section for more.
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Yes. There are reminders throughout to listen to and honour your body’s cues. Self pleasure is healing, but it can be harmful if you are forcing your body to do something before it is ready. This is big, brave work, and we meet you where you are at. There is a separate sound healing session inside the workshop that you are welcome to come back to whenever you want to build a sense of safety in your body.
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Yes, the majority of our clients are international, so we charge in US dollars, but since our business is based in Canada, we must charge local taxes where applicable.
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You can. I suggest doing it by yourself first, and then watching with them the second time. You will see in the testimonial section that many people have found doing this workshop has had positive effects on their sexual partnerships. Your partner doesn’t need to watch the workshop in order to benefit from it, but you are more than welcome to share it with them.
Not sure it’s for you?
This self-love ceremony is for women who have never had an orgasm just as much as it is for multi-orgasmic women.
This class is for you if:
You want to feel more confident in your body
You want to feel way better about your vulva
You are ready to shed sexual shame and own your unique self expression
You want to understand your anatomy experientially
You want to learn to have (better) orgasms
You want to enjoy the process of connecting with yourself (not just the ending)!
Anyone is welcome to purchase and participate in this ceremony. Please be aware, it was created for women who have vulvas (and I speak directly to that experience).
Please note: the workshop is best done with a vibrator and dildo, which are not included in the workshop’s price. Inside the course, you will find a guide on how to choose the best ones for you with a variety of budgets, along with discount codes to my favourite shop.