The Art of Receiving - Divine Femininity

I feel overwhelmed sometimes by the seemingly daunting task of growing. Growing up emotionally, spiritually, or just as an adult and I want the way my life to progress.  I feel pushed to the max effort wise, yet still want so much more abundance to be flowing out of my efforts, and the equation doesn’t seem to work out. Can you relate? You want more result, but you are so close to burn out that it seems you can’t possibly work harder, so you settle for the fact that life is just hard, and you will somehow find the motivation to plug through, just like everyone else.

 

This feels. So. Freaking. Real.

 

Let me walk you through what helps me turn this around. And also, disclaimer, this took me about a week of spinning my tail and working way too hard to realize that something had to give. Like crappy sleeps, moodiness, and 7 days of exhaustion later to remember I have the tools to shift this shit. Do the work. You can’t stay vibrating in scarcity, because it is all you will see everywhere, and it becomes a really mean slave driver inside your head that insists you need to squeeze more doing into every waking moment, and robs you of actual peace in your sleeping moments.

 

Here is my step by step guide to shift from desparation + effort to relaxation + receiving.

 

 

1. Write down what is real. What have you received/manifested/created in the past week/month/year? These could be things that came to you really easily, or you have wanted for a long time, or have made your life much easier. Whatever it is, begin to write down the things/people/circumstances that have blessed you recently.

 

This is tremendously powerful because we are often so blessed at such a rapid rate, that we forget to even acknowledge all the good that is coming in. We almost instantaneously take it for granted. Instead of receiving graciously, we become greedy, spoiled brats. Blech. The worst. Nobody wants to give to a spoiled brat. Not God, not the universe, not even yourself. Acknowledging and feeling grateful is the medicine to spoiled brat syndrome. You stop being a greedy child, and become a divine feminine vessel to receive. It also feels better. Win, win, win for the whole wide world.

 

2. This list is going to start to affect you. As you see the blessings, and you take time to acknowledge them, you begin to get in reality that you really are taken care of. The next step is rewiring your brain out of scarcity into this real place of abundance using affirmations. If you are like me, and you have dug deep into the neaural pathway trenches of scarcity and required-slave-driver-like-business for over a week, you have some work to do. Our adult brains are changeable, or in fancy science speak, they are “neuroplastic,” meaning our beliefs and our patterns are changeable. Affirmations are the quickest more effective way I know how to do this.

Coming up with your own is really the most potent way, but it can feel foreign at first. Try writing each of these out at least three times to get started:

I am growing at the perfect pace.

I am growing at the perfect pace.

I am growing at the perfect pace.

 

I am taken care of always.

I am taken care of always

I am taken care of always.

 

I have everything I need. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I have everything I need. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I have everything I need. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

 

I receive graciously.

I receive graciously.

I receive graciously.

 

I am safe to relax. Everything is coming to me.

I am safe to relax. Everything is coming to me.

I am safe to relax. Everything is coming to me.

 

 

That is it. It is a two-step process. Notice how much better you feel after doing this. You were made to feel good. Sometimes we forget that we live in a playground. That we came here to ENJOY. That we are powerful creators, and so much of our toil is self inflicted, and originates right in between our very own ears. Which is really great news, because it is 100% in our control to change.

 

We all contain both masculine and feminine. Tune in to your divine feminine. That part of you that was made to receive, without effort, just with a little bit of focus, and a whole lot of appreciation.

 

I hope this helps you with whatever you are going through. Sending each of you so much love and a whopping dose of clarity, to see yourself as you really are: beautiful, bountiful, and blissful.